To My Friends...

I'll give you an update on sushi guy really quickly. My intuition was correct, he wanted to be...physical friends. So, with my dignity in tack, I said no thanks and haven't talked to him since. Therefore, I also did not get my sushi, which being pregnant, is the most disappointing.

I've been filling alot of my down time surfing a picture site. If you're on my facebook, you'll see me sometimes post things from there. I've always lurked on it, but now I'm an official participant. Anyways, I had started making small chat with someone on there who's wife wanted a divorce. Now, being in the same boat, I know how much it sucks. It's a very emotional and expensive process, and being pregnant while doing it, it's not for the faint of heart.

So, I shot him a message, told him if he needed to talk, I'm right here. He took me up on the offer and I found out he was from Ohio, about the same age as me, and well, wasn't taking it well. I talked to him for 2 days straight. I gave him all the advice I could, anything to help him save his  marriage. He helped me get through some awkward issues I had to deal with this weekend, just by staying by his phone and letting me rant about them after.

The response times eventually started getting longer and eventually yesterday, we stopped talking. I really REALLY hope he takes me up on my advice and does anything he can to save his marriage. Just because mine failed, doesn't mean his needs to.

This weekend has been full of it's ups and downs and to my friends  and family who've sat by my side, whether it was up till 3 in the morning having chats that if I was able to drink wine, I would've had the entire bottle, to helping me deal with an injured dog, to helping me clean my house, to late night deck chats, to arranging play dates to get me and the kiddo out of the house, it never goes unnoticed. In a way, my relationships with them have grown and flourished more everyday and they accept me for me. That ladies and gentleman, is what keeps my spirits up.

Until next time.